GOOD FOOD, WAY TO A MAN'S HEART!!!!

Hello my mummies, my aunties, my sisters, my colleagues, my friends. How are you all doing today? am sure good.
Today i want to talk about food, not only because food is important and essential to the body, but trust me food does keep a family together. i have seen a couple fight because of food before and true true it wasn't a funny one, but what can i do? i laughed and pretended like i didn't see it happen.
People often say good food is the way to man's heart, is it true? or some men love it? and most men don't? or some cant just be bothered? Personally, i think all men love food a bit.(Wink Wink)
I wont be talking about heavy food today just because of the whole diet issue going on, everyone seems to be conscious of their diets these days, i wonder why? me i will eat and chop the life of your head (laughs)
Now to the deal of the day, i will to be talking about this food with the recipe  i use to lounge when am bored, because its not so heavy and i can either have it grilled or fried. and of course its my wonderful Tilapia fish. 
RECIPE FOR GRILLED STUFFED TILAPIA FISH WITH PLANTAIN.
TILAPIA FISH

MIXED PEPPERS

ONIONS

SCOTCH BONNET (RODO)
KNORR (MAGGIE CUBES)
PLANTAIN.
TOMATOES

                                                                 
   

















































NOW THEN, LET THE COOKING BEGIN!!!!!!
FISH
You clean the fish inside out, cut the fin out with scissors. don't use hot water to clean it, use cold water instead. usually when i get the fish it comes clean already so its i don't have to do some much cleaning to it.
when the fish is cleaned without blood dripping from it, you marinate it with some knorr cubes or maggi. i use about 5cubes depending on how many fish i would be cooking. i don't use salt that much.
cover it up with a cling film and leave it for about 15mins.
VEGETABLES (MIXED PEPPERS, TOMATOES, GARLIC, ONIONS, SCOTCH BONNET(RODO)
Chop up all this into small pieces, that you know would go into the fish that has been cleaned, the smaller the more the filling of the fish.
when this is done, you add some maggie cubes or knorr cubes. mix it together, add some vegetable oil or sunflower oil.
After like 5mins, you stuff your fish up with all the vegetables u chopped up.
Grill or Fry
preheat your oven for about 15mins so that its a bit hot before you put your fish init.
Put the fish in the Grill and turn the heat up to about 150 depending on the temperature of your oven/grill. leave the fish in the oven for about 30mins.
if i want to fry, then i opt for deep frying because of the stuffing, just that  it doesn't come out and it gets cooked abit inside too.
PLANTAIN
 When its cooking in the oven, i cut the plantain to get it ready for frying. i don't use salt or seasoning on my plantain, i like the sweet taste still.
I fry my plantain on low heat. i like it quite brown.
hoops, did i forget the fish in the oven. i better check up on it. the fish is well down
Stuff the fish up with some of the plantain n leave it in the oven for some minutes.
This is what it looks like in the process of making.



















You can also decide to have this with rice or noodles with salad on the side


I hope you will agree with me that men love good food, it doesn't have to be pounded yam or eba or amala it could just be something light but done in a nice way that would attract them and not make it look its just fish they are served.
Let me know what you think about this.
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Obama's Victory Speech 2012 For the Records.

President Barack Obama's speech in Chicago after his re-election:


Thank you so much.

Tonight, more than 200 years after a former colony won the right to determine its own destiny, the task of perfecting our union moves forward.

It moves forward because of you. It moves forward because you reaffirmed the spirit that has triumphed over war and depression, the spirit that has lifted this country from the depths of despair to the great heights of hope, the belief that while each of us will pursue our own individual dreams, we are an American family and we rise or fall together as one nation and as one people.

Tonight, in this election, you, the American people, reminded us that while our road has been hard, while our journey has been long, we have picked ourselves up, we have fought our way back, and we know in our hearts that for the United States of America the best is yet to come.

I want to thank every American who participated in this election, whether you voted for the very first time or waited in line for a very long time. By the way, we have to fix that. Whether you pounded the pavement or picked up the phone, whether you held an Obama sign or a Romney sign, you made your voice heard and you made a difference.

I just spoke with Gov. Romney and I congratulated him and Paul Ryan on a hard-fought campaign. We may have battled fiercely, but it's only because we love this country deeply and we care so strongly about its future. From George to Lenore to their son Mitt, the Romney family has chosen to give back to America through public service and that is the legacy that we honor and applaud tonight. In the weeks ahead, I also look forward to sitting down with Gov. Romney to talk about where we can work together to move this country forward.

I want to thank my friend and partner of the last four years, America's happy warrior, the best vice president anybody could ever hope for, Joe Biden.

And I wouldn't be the man I am today without the woman who agreed to marry me 20 years ago. Let me say this publicly: Michelle, I have never loved you more. I have never been prouder to watch the rest of America fall in love with you, too, as our nation's first lady. Sasha and Malia, before our very eyes you're growing up to become two strong, smart beautiful young women, just like your mom. And I'm so proud of you guys. But I will say that for now one dog's probably enough.

To the best campaign team and volunteers in the history of politics. The best. The best ever. Some of you were new this time around, and some of you have been at my side since the very beginning. But all of you are family. No matter what you do or where you go from here, you will carry the memory of the history we made together and you will have the lifelong appreciation of a grateful president. Thank you for believing all the way, through every hill, through every valley. You lifted me up the whole way and I will always be grateful for everything that you've done and all the incredible work that you put in.

I know that political campaigns can sometimes seem small, even silly. And that provides plenty of fodder for the cynics that tell us that politics is nothing more than a contest of egos or the domain of special interests. But if you ever get the chance to talk to folks who turned out at our rallies and crowded along a rope line in a high school gym, or saw folks working late in a campaign office in some tiny country far away from home, you'll discover something else.

You'll hear the determination in the voice of a young field organizer who's working his way through college and wants to make sure every child has that same opportunity. You'll hear the pride in the voice of a volunteer who's going door to door because her brother was finally hired when the local auto plant added another shift. You'll hear the deep patriotism in the voice of a military spouse who's working the phones late at night to make sure that no one who fights for this country ever has to fight for a job or a roof over their head when they come home.

That's why we do this. That's what politics can be. That's why elections matter. It's not small, it's big. It's important. Democracy in a nation of 300 million can be noisy and messy and complicated. We have our own opinions. Each of us has deeply held beliefs. And when we go through tough times, when we make big decisions as a country, it necessarily stirs passions, stirs up controversy. That won't change after tonight, and it shouldn't. These arguments we have are a mark of our liberty. We can never forget that as we speak people in distant nations are risking their lives right now just for a chance to argue about the issues that matter, the chance to cast their ballots like we did today.

But despite all our differences, most of us share certain hopes for America's future. We want our kids to grow up in a country where they have access to the best schools and the best teachers. A country that lives up to its legacy as the global leader in technology and discovery and innovation, with all the good jobs and new businesses that follow.

We want our children to live in an America that isn't burdened by debt, that isn't weakened by inequality, that isn't threatened by the destructive power of a warming planet. We want to pass on a country that's safe and respected and admired around the world, a nation that is defended by the strongest military on earth and the best troops this — this world has ever known. But also a country that moves with confidence beyond this time of war, to shape a peace that is built on the promise of freedom and dignity for every human being.

We believe in a generous America, in a compassionate America, in a tolerant America, open to the dreams of an immigrant's daughter who studies in our schools and pledges to our flag. To the young boy on the south side of Chicago who sees a life beyond the nearest street corner. To the furniture worker's child in North Carolina who wants to become a doctor or a scientist, an engineer or an entrepreneur, a diplomat or even a president — that's the future we hope for. That's the vision we share. That's where we need to go — forward. That's where we need to go.

Now, we will disagree, sometimes fiercely, about how to get there. As it has for more than two centuries, progress will come in fits and starts. It's not always a straight line. It's not always a smooth path. By itself, the recognition that we have common hopes and dreams won't end all the gridlock or solve all our problems or substitute for the painstaking work of building consensus and making the difficult compromises needed to move this country forward. But that common bond is where we must begin.

Our economy is recovering. A decade of war is ending. A long campaign is now over. And whether I earned your vote or not, I have listened to you, I have learned from you, and you've made me a better president. And with your stories and your struggles, I return to the White House more determined and more inspired than ever about the work there is to do and the future that lies ahead.

Tonight you voted for action, not politics as usual. You elected us to focus on your jobs, not ours. And in the coming weeks and months, I am looking forward to reaching out and working with leaders of both parties to meet the challenges we can only solve together. Reducing our deficit. Reforming our tax code. Fixing our immigration system. Freeing ourselves from foreign oil. We've got more work to do.

But that doesn't mean your work is done. The role of citizen in our democracy does not end with your vote. America's never been about what can be done for us. It's about what can be done by us together through the hard and frustrating, but necessary work of self-government. That's the principle we were founded on.

This country has more wealth than any nation, but that's not what makes us rich. We have the most powerful military in history, but that's not what makes us strong. Our university, our culture are all the envy of the world, but that's not what keeps the world coming to our shores.

What makes America exceptional are the bonds that hold together the most diverse nation on earth. The belief that our destiny is shared; that this country only works when we accept certain obligations to one another and to future generations. The freedom which so many Americans have fought for and died for come with responsibilities as well as rights. And among those are love and charity and duty and patriotism. That's what makes America great.

I am hopeful tonight because I've seen the spirit at work in America. I've seen it in the family business whose owners would rather cut their own pay than lay off their neighbors, and in the workers who would rather cut back their hours than see a friend lose a job. I've seen it in the soldiers who reenlist after losing a limb and in those SEALs who charged up the stairs into darkness and danger because they knew there was a buddy behind them watching their back.

I've seen it on the shores of New Jersey and New York, where leaders from every party and level of government have swept aside their differences to help a community rebuild from the wreckage of a terrible storm. And I saw just the other day, in Mentor, Ohio, where a father told the story of his 8-year-old daughter, whose long battle with leukemia nearly cost their family everything had it not been for health care reform passing just a few months before the insurance company was about to stop paying for her care.

I had an opportunity to not just talk to the father, but meet this incredible daughter of his. And when he spoke to the crowd listening to that father's story, every parent in that room had tears in their eyes, because we knew that little girl could be our own. And I know that every American wants her future to be just as bright. That's who we are. That's the country I'm so proud to lead as your president.

And tonight, despite all the hardship we've been through, despite all the frustrations of Washington, I've never been more hopeful about our future. I have never been more hopeful about America. And I ask you to sustain that hope. I'm not talking about blind optimism, the kind of hope that just ignores the enormity of the tasks ahead or the roadblocks that stand in our path. I'm not talking about the wishful idealism that allows us to just sit on the sidelines or shirk from a fight.

I have always believed that hope is that stubborn thing inside us that insists, despite all the evidence to the contrary, that something better awaits us so long as we have the courage to keep reaching, to keep working, to keep fighting.

America, I believe we can build on the progress we've made and continue to fight for new jobs and new opportunity and new security for the middle class. I believe we can keep the promise of our founders, the idea that if you're willing to work hard, it doesn't matter who you are or where you come from or what you look like or where you love. It doesn't matter whether you're black or white or Hispanic or Asian or Native American or young or old or rich or poor, able, disabled, gay or straight, you can make it here in America if you're willing to try.

I believe we can seize this future together because we are not as divided as our politics suggests. We're not as cynical as the pundits believe. We are greater than the sum of our individual ambitions, and we remain more than a collection of red states and blue states. We are and forever will be the United States of America.

And together with your help and God's grace we will continue our journey forward and remind the world just why it is that we live in the greatest nation on Earth.

Thank you, America. God bless you. God bless these United States. 





Posted with Permission of The Times

ON THE LAST PAGE OF MY OBITUARY PAMPHLET

Good day to you all, permit me to share something very important to me with you this morning, very rare treaded pathway but lets go together.

At the end of time, when water and blood is gone, and all we have is the lifeless body wrapped in a piece of cloth, mat or placed in a box called coffin or even perhaps cremated, then we shall have a paper printed with the order of service. It will have the hymns or songs for the day, the reading of the day, probably things that were written on the condelence register and at the end 'The Life and Times'of the man/who has passed away.

Many shy away from this inevitable debt called death but i believe someday we all shall be translated if Jesus tarries and for those who are alive till then, this may not directly affect you though i suggest you read on. When the time comes for us to finally go, something has to be written on that final page of the Obituary booklet/pamphlet, the years and days of the deceased have to be arranged, either doctored or accurately in those final pages of the obituary book and can i ask you a question, Have you thought about what will be written about you?

Have you considered what will be written in the who he was column of your Obituary, Have you? If you have, great thinking, if you havent, not bad after all, its nothing to worry about, Why do i say so? Some of us have already written some paragraphs of that page depending on how far you have gone in life, either by virtue of age or achievement. You remember that column, Papa or Mama's Early Life or some say Educational Life, that part of your life might just have been written, maybe you are in the working years, or whatever phase you call it. My word to you today is to write what you will love to read by living it out. Whatever you did not live out will not be written on those pages of truth, If the early years did not reflect what you would have loved, what about now, In a bid to die honourably and gracefully live as such.

Praise singers always exist after the demise of a loved one but what you have lived for cannot be easily twisted. Your works will speak for you. I remember my loved ones who are gone to glory and all i can think of about them are the things they have done, their footprints on the sands of time. If you are not scared, then write on the wall of your heart who you wish to die as and if you are more courageous as the rest of us, Write it down or write it out, Write out how many destinies you hoped to have shaped before you pay the inevitable debt, write what change you would have brought in your own little corner, Write where you hope to have shone your little lamp before its six feet under the ground. Whatever you hope to see said about you, written about you is what you should live as.


Have a great day in the hope of a greater future living forever in the hearts of those you affected.

Jesus Christ of Nazareth lived just 33 years and i am sure his life has affected billions and will affect more. Also we have had heros whose simple life have made a difference in their time. Today i begin to live the way i desire the last page of my obituary should look like so when i am gone i can recieve the final well done, Good and faithful servant

Ife Bamidele

WHY ARE YOU WHERE YOU ARE?


Good day people,

As we go out today to get, Let us always remember the underlying purpose for what we do each day. Let us know why we do what we do. Take a look back at why you took that job offer, why you volunteered to do what you doing, why you sitting doing nothing. Just get to the roots again and be sure you still on the right path.

The race up the hill often makes us forget why we actually made those crucial decisions. 'I choose to work here', so i can have time for the kids. 'I choose to get another job so i can take care of my husband'. 'I choose to take a professional course so i can change career'. However some of us seem to have lost track and forgotten what made us come this way. 



Today i urge you to have a rethink, Why did i come to this city, this workplace, this marriage, this business. It might just be a helpful thought to get you back on the right track.

There is no point running when you facing the wrong direction, be sure where you are and where you are facing and juxtapose it with where you are going. You will be suprised how this can help decisions and directions.

Have a productive week.

Ife Bamidele


Photocredits: creativecommunicator.


CHURCH ON THE BLOG : DO NOT FAINT

Hallo everyone,

Hope you having a good day, Its Sunday and as usual i have church on the blog on Sunday, sorry Sunday service is starting late but that simply depends on what part of the globe you are in.

                                                         BE NOT WEARY


And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.
                                                                                        Galatians 6:9

Thats my message for you today, dont stop doing good for there is a reward for doing good, however it doesnt stop there, there is also the place of continuity in doing good. This is what can lead to a reward. So no matter how you feel about the good you do, please dont stop. Do you think others who are taking shortcuts seem to be doing better? or do you have a feeling your good is not being appreciated? Keep keeping on, for in due season you will reap if you dont faint. 

Have a beautiful Sunday 

Stand Tall and Faint Not

Adieu Remi Lagos


News coming in say we have lost a fashion icon. I have tried to confirm officially but no direct information yet but its all over the news. Her website remilagos.com is unchanged but BellaNaija, Lindaikeji, StreetJournal and ynaija and a few other sources state she died after a battle with cancer and passed on at 51. May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

On Saturdays we do fashion on this blog and today we lost a Remi (Osholake) Lagos a pioneer in the Nigeria fashion industry.
Sleep on
A good work lasts forever. Adieu

Photo credits: www.remilagos.com

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